Paula Appleton, BACP, NCPS
Paula Appleton is a counsellor with 14 years' experience working in the United Kingdom.
About Paula
Paula Appleton is a counsellor with 14 years' experience working in the United Kingdom. She follows the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy ethical framework and combines approaches to suit each person she meets. She works with a wide range of concerns and offers sessions in English and American Sign Language.
Paula uses an integrative way of working, drawing on therapies such as Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy and Attachment-based approaches.
Background and approach
She adapts her style to what someone needs on the day, whether that is practical coping skills, space to talk about feelings, or support to make a difficult decision. Common issues she supports people with include stress, anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, addictions, grief and self-esteem.
She also helps with intimacy-related issues, parenting stress, sleeping and eating difficulties, and challenges linked to neurodiversity such as autism and ADHD. Paula has experience with additional areas like abandonment, adoption and foster care, ageing and geriatric issues, chronic illness and caregiver stress. She also works with people facing career change, compassion fatigue, bipolar conditions and body image concerns.
Sessions can be delivered by video, phone, live chat or text-based messaging to suit different needs. International clients may be supported and practical arrangements are discussed at the first contact. To start, people complete a short matching questionnaire and schedule sessions according to therapist availability.
Details from the counsellor's public professional profile · registration number listed
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| Body | Registration number | Expires |
|---|---|---|
| BACP | 191689 | January 2027 |
| NCPS | NCS22-02588 | July 2026 |
Registration details are as listed on the counsellor's public profile. You can check any number with the registering body.
Sessions and payment
Sessions are held online through our partner platform, by video, phone or messaging depending on the counsellor.
Cost Costs are shown on the partner platform before you commit. If cost is a concern, ask about reduced-fee options.
Focus areas and approaches
Everything Paula lists on their public professional profile, in their own terms.
- Stress, Anxiety
- Relationship issues
- Family conflicts
- Trauma and abuse
- Depression
- Addictions
- LGBT
- Grief
- Intimacy-related issues
- Eating disorders
- Sleeping disorders
- Parenting issues
- Anger management
- Self esteem
- Career difficulties
- Bipolar disorder
- Coping with life changes
- Coaching
- Compassion fatigue
- ADHD
- Abandonment
- Adoption and foster care
- Aging and geriatric issues
- Antisocial personality
- Attachment issues
- Autism and Asperger Syndrome
- Avoidant personality
- Blended family issues
- Body image
- Cancer
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Chronic pain, illness, and disability
- Co-morbidity
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Control issues
- Coping with natural or human-caused disaster
- Dependent personality
- Disruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)
- Dissociation
- Divorce and separation
- Domestic violence
- Drug and alcohol addiction
- Eating and food-related issues
- Emptiness
- Family of origin issues
- Family problems
- Fatherhood issues
- Fertility issues
- First responder issues
- Forgiveness
- Gender dysphoria
- Guilt and shame
- Hearing impaired
- HIV / AIDS
- Hoarding
- Hospice and end-of-life counselling
- Immigration issues
- Impulsivity
- Infidelity
- Intellectual disability
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Midlife crisis
- Veteran and Armed Forces Issues
- Money and financial issues
- Mood disorders
- Multicultural concerns
- Narcissism
- Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Paranoia
- Personality disorders
- Phobias
- Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships
- Postpartum depression
- Post-traumatic stress
- Pregnancy and childbirth
- Prejudice and discrimination
- Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Self-harm
- Self-love
- Sex addiction
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Sexual dysfunction
- Sexuality
- Smoking / vaping cessation
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Somatization
- Traumatic brain injury
- Trichotillomania
- Visually impaired
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Ways of working Paula names
- Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
- Attachment-Based Therapy
- Client-Centred Therapy
- Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)
- Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT)
- Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)
- Existential Therapy
- Gottman Method
- Jungian Therapy
- Mindfulness Therapy
- Motivational Interviewing
- Narrative Therapy
- Psychodynamic Therapy
- Solution-Focused Therapy
- Somatic Therapy
- Trauma-Focused Therapy
- Internal Family Systems
- Systemic Therapy
Naming an approach is not evidence of training in it. This directory copies what each counsellor lists and does not check training records.
How Paula's approaches translate to online work
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy helps people notice difficult thoughts and feelings and choose actions that match their values. It is often useful for anxiety, stress, low mood and coping with life changes. Cognitive Behavioural Therapy looks at thinking patterns and behaviours to reduce distress and build practical skills for problems like panic, depression and sleep issues. Attachment-Based work focuses on how early relationships shape current patterns and can help with intimacy, relationship concerns and feeling supported in connections.Finding the right approach is a collaborative process. Paula will discuss goals and preferences and try methods that fit the person’s needs. The first sessions usually focus on what is most urgent and on testing ways of working that feel comfortable and useful.
Online therapy offers flexibility. Video calls suit longer conversations and visual connection, phone sessions work well when bandwidth is limited or a shorter check-in is needed, and live chat or text messaging can be useful for quick reflections or people who prefer typing. These options make it easier to fit therapy around work, family or mobility needs while keeping the focus on practical progress and emotional support.
Frequently asked
What kinds of concerns does Paula work with?
She supports people with stress, anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, addictions, grief and self-esteem among other issues. The list also includes parenting stress, intimacy difficulties, sleeping and eating problems, and ADHD related concerns.
What is her therapeutic style like?
Paula uses an integrative style that blends practical skills and talking therapy. Sessions can involve learning coping techniques, looking at patterns, and making choices that match a person’s values.
How much experience does she have?
She has 14 years of clinical experience working with a wide range of presenting issues across different settings.
What credentials and region does she practise in?
Paula lists BACP and NCPS and she practises in the United Kingdom.
Which languages are supported during sessions?
Sessions are offered in English and American Sign Language.
What session formats are available?
She offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat and text-based messaging to suit different needs and circumstances.
How are sessions paid for?
Sessions are paid through a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time; fees vary with location and therapist arrangements.
How do I begin working with Paula?
Start by pressing the Start Therapy button and completing a short matching questionnaire, then schedule sessions according to therapist availability.