Ingried Upingasana, BACP
Ingried Upingasana offers calm, steady support for people facing stress, anxiety, low mood and relationship strain.
About Ingried
Ingried Upingasana offers calm, steady support for people facing stress, anxiety, low mood and relationship strain. She helps clients who are struggling with things like trauma, addiction, self-esteem, sleep or eating concerns. Sessions are held in English and Afrikaans and take place online using video, phone, live chat or messaging.
Ingried brings five years of professional experience and lists BACP as a credential. She adopts a warm, person-centred stance and draws on practical tools from cognitive behavioural work and mindfulness.
Background and approach
Sessions aim to be straightforward and down-to-earth, focusing on small, manageable steps clients can try between meetings. Her approach pays attention to how past relationships and attachment patterns shape present difficulties. That can include working through abandonment fears, avoidant tendencies or issues around commitment and communication.
She also supports people dealing with carer stress, cancer-related distress, or the emotional fallout from separation and loss. Positive psychology ideas are woven into many sessions. That means building hope, resilience and realistic self-belief through simple practices such as gratitude and acts of kindness.
Motivational interviewing is used when change feels stuck, especially around addiction or health-related goals. Ingried aims to create a nondirective, faith-sensitive space where clients can explore identity and values. She affirms LGBT clients and invites spiritual reflection if that matters to the person.
Therapy is collaborative and paced to match each client’s needs and goals.
Details from the counsellor's public professional profile · registration number listed
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| Body | Registration number | Expires |
|---|---|---|
| BACP | 404789 | October 2026 |
Registration details are as listed on the counsellor's public profile. You can check any number with the registering body.
Sessions and payment
Sessions are held online through our partner platform, by video, phone or messaging depending on the counsellor.
Cost Costs are shown on the partner platform before you commit. If cost is a concern, ask about reduced-fee options.
Focus areas and approaches
Everything Ingried lists on their public professional profile, in their own terms.
- Stress, Anxiety
- Relationship issues
- Trauma and abuse
- Self esteem
- Depression
- Addictions
- LGBT
- Intimacy-related issues
- Eating disorders
- Sleeping disorders
- Parenting issues
- Anger management
- Career difficulties
- Coping with life changes
- Coaching
- Compassion fatigue
- ADHD
- Abandonment
- Attachment issues
- Avoidant personality
- Blended family issues
- Body image
- Cancer
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Control issues
- Dependent personality
- Divorce and separation
- Domestic violence
- Drug and alcohol addiction
- Emptiness
- Family problems
- Forgiveness
- Guilt and shame
- HIV / AIDS
- Immigration issues
- Infidelity
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- Life purpose
- Midlife crisis
- Money and financial issues
- Narcissism
- Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Personality disorders
- Phobias
- Post-traumatic stress
- Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)
- Self-harm
- Self-love
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Sexual dysfunction
- Sexuality
- Smoking / vaping cessation
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Ways of working Ingried names
- Client-Centred Therapy
- Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)
- Mindfulness Therapy
- Motivational Interviewing
- Psychodynamic Therapy
- Solution-Focused Therapy
- Trauma-Focused Therapy
Naming an approach is not evidence of training in it. This directory copies what each counsellor lists and does not check training records.
Approaches and what online work looks like
Client-Centred Therapy focuses on understanding the client’s perspective and offering a nonjudgemental space. It helps people explore feelings, values and identity at their own pace. Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) looks at how thoughts, feelings and actions connect and uses simple exercises to break unhelpful patterns; it is often useful for anxiety, low mood and insomnia. Mindfulness Therapy teaches practical attention and breathing skills to reduce stress and improve emotional regulation, which can help with trauma aftercare and ongoing worry. Choosing the right approach is a collaborative process. The counsellor will talk with the client about goals, past attempts at change and what feels most comfortable. Together they decide which methods to try and review progress as they go, adjusting the plan when needed. Online sessions offer practical flexibility. Video calls let people have a more face-to-face experience, phone sessions work well when bandwidth is low or a camera feels too intense, and live chat or messaging can be used for brief check-ins or when typing helps someone express themselves. These options make it easier to fit therapy around work, childcare and daily life while keeping the focus on steady, achievable steps.Frequently asked
What kinds of problems does this counsellor help with?
She helps people facing stress, anxiety, depression, trauma, relationship strain, addiction, low self-esteem and issues around intimacy, eating and sleep.
How would you describe the style of therapy?
The style is warm and person-centred with practical elements from cognitive behavioural therapy, mindfulness and solution-focused work to support change.
What is her professional background?
She has five years of experience and works from an integrative perspective that blends psychological approaches with positive psychology practices.
Which credential and location are listed for the counsellor?
She is listed with BACP and practices in the United Kingdom.
Which languages are sessions offered in?
Sessions are offered in English and Afrikaans.
What session formats are available?
Therapy is offered via video calls, phone sessions, live chat or text-based messaging to suit different preferences and schedules.
How does payment or cost work?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.
What do I need to do to begin?
Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to the therapist’s availability.