Deborah Steel, BACP
Deborah Steel offers calm, practical support for people who are overwhelmed by stress, anxiety, grief or difficult life changes.
About Deborah
Deborah Steel offers calm, practical support for people who are overwhelmed by stress, anxiety, grief or difficult life changes. She is a counsellor with 12 years of experience and works from a person-centred stance to help people feel heard and understood. Deborah is a member of the British Association for Counselling & Psychotherapy (BACP).
She focuses on helping people manage low mood, trauma and abuse, relationship and intimacy concerns, and issues that affect daily functioning like sleep problems and compassion fatigue.
Background and approach
Sessions are aimed at making feelings clearer and finding doable steps forward. Deborah also supports people dealing with parenting strain, career stress, ADHD-related challenges, and the practical impacts of chronic illness. Her approach blends client-centred work with cognitive behavioural techniques and mindfulness.
That means conversations begin with the client’s experience and then move to practical ways to test unhelpful thoughts and try new behaviours. Emotionally-Focused Therapy ideas guide work around attachment and relationship patterns. Deborah makes room for people from LGBT communities and for those facing adoption, caregiving or bereavement challenges.
She also brings experience with issues such as abandonment, blended family problems and alternative sexual cultures. The aim is to tailor each session to the person in front of her. Sessions may look like talking things through, practising new ways of coping, or trying short exercises to shift attention and mood.
Deborah encourages questions about the process and supports clients to set realistic goals. If someone wants a practical, compassionate way to change, she can help plan the next steps.
Details from the counsellor's public professional profile · registration number listed
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| Body | Registration number | Expires |
|---|---|---|
| BACP | 92722 | January 2027 |
Registration details are as listed on the counsellor's public profile. You can check any number with the registering body.
Sessions and payment
Sessions are held online through our partner platform, by video, phone or messaging depending on the counsellor.
Cost Costs are shown on the partner platform before you commit. If cost is a concern, ask about reduced-fee options.
Focus areas and approaches
Everything Deborah lists on their public professional profile, in their own terms.
- Stress, Anxiety
- Trauma and abuse
- Self esteem
- Coping with life changes
- Coaching
- LGBT
- Relationship issues
- Family conflicts
- Grief
- Intimacy-related issues
- Sleeping disorders
- Parenting issues
- Anger management
- Career difficulties
- Depression
- Compassion fatigue
- ADHD
- Abandonment
- Adoption and foster care
- Aging and geriatric issues
- Attachment issues
- Autism and Asperger Syndrome
- Avoidant personality
- BDSM, kink, and alternative sex culture
- Blended family issues
- Cancer
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Chronic pain, illness, and disability
- Co-morbidity
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Control issues
- Dissociation
- Divorce and separation
- Domestic violence
- Emptiness
- Family of origin issues
- Family problems
- Fatherhood issues
- Forgiveness
- Guilt and shame
- Hoarding
- Hospice and end-of-life counselling
- Immigration issues
- Infidelity
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- Life purpose
- Midlife crisis
- Money and financial issues
- Narcissism
- Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Paranoia
- Phobias
- Postpartum depression
- Post-traumatic stress
- Pregnancy and childbirth
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Self-harm
- Self-love
- Sex addiction
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Sexual dysfunction
- Sexuality
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Traumatic brain injury
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
Ways of working Deborah names
- Client-Centred Therapy
- Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)
- Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)
- Existential Therapy
- Mindfulness Therapy
- Narrative Therapy
- Psychodynamic Therapy
- Solution-Focused Therapy
- Somatic Therapy
- Trauma-Focused Therapy
Naming an approach is not evidence of training in it. This directory copies what each counsellor lists and does not check training records.
Approaches and online therapy that fit your life
Deborah often uses Client-Centred Therapy to prioritise the person’s experience. This approach means sessions begin with listening and reflecting, helping people feel understood before moving on to change. It is useful when someone needs a calm space to sort thoughts and emotions.She also draws on Cognitive Behavioural Therapy or CBT to identify and test unhelpful thoughts. CBT offers simple exercises and small behavioural experiments that can reduce anxiety and low mood over time. Mindfulness ideas are used alongside these approaches to help people notice thoughts without getting pulled in by them, which can aid sleep and stress management.
Finding the right approach is part of the work. Deborah will talk with each person about goals and preferences and then agree on an approach together. That collaborative planning makes it easier to try methods that suit the individual and adapt them as progress is made.
Online sessions are offered by video call, phone, live chat or text-based messaging to suit different needs. Video calls are close to an in-person meeting and allow visual cues. Phone sessions need less bandwidth and can be easier to fit into a work break. Live chat and messaging are useful for short check-ins or ongoing support between sessions. These options give flexibility so therapy can fit around family, work and health demands.
Frequently asked
What concerns does Deborah commonly help with?
She works with stress, anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, and grief. She also helps with relationship and intimacy issues, parenting strain, sleep problems and career stress.
How would you describe her therapy style?
Her style is warm and person-centred, with practical elements from cognitive behavioural therapy and mindfulness. Sessions focus on listening first, then trying concrete steps to change thoughts or habits.
What is her professional background?
Deborah has 12 years of experience and holds a BA (Hons) in Counselling. She supports people through a range of emotional and life challenges.
Is she registered with any professional body in the UK?
She is a member of the British Association for Counselling & Psychotherapy, recorded as BACP in her profile.
Can sessions be held in other languages or for international clients?
Sessions are offered in English. She is not currently accepting international clients.
What formats are available for sessions?
Sessions can be delivered by video calls, phone sessions, live chat or text-based messaging depending on what suits the client.
How are sessions charged and paid for?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability and sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.
How do I begin working with Deborah?
Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, completing a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to the therapist’s availability.