Shirley Banton, BACP
Shirley Banton is a counsellor who draws on an 11-year practice to support people through hard moments.
About Shirley
Shirley Banton is a counsellor who draws on an 11-year practice to support people through hard moments. She holds BACP affiliation and offers sessions online for people in the United Kingdom and beyond. Her approach is collaborative and paced to the individual.
Shirley bases her work on client-centred principles, encouraging people to set the pace and shape sessions. She combines that with an interest in deeper personal meaning, helping people reflect on patterns and values.
Background and approach
Conversations aim to be respectful, honest and free from judgement. She has particular experience supporting people affected by trauma and relational harm, including domestic violence and coercive control. Shirley also understands pressures linked to education and work, such as anxiety, burnout and identity questions from students and educators.
Sessions focus on practical steps alongside reflection. Shirley may use cognitive behavioural ideas to notice thinking patterns and mindfulness techniques to manage stress and emotions. She also draws on psychodynamic and solution-focused elements when they suit someone s needs.
People come to Shirley for many concerns, including anxiety, depression, relationship and family difficulties, grief, addiction, ADHD, eating and sleeping problems, and issues around self-esteem and intimacy. The work typically looks at understanding patterns, rebuilding confidence and setting clearer boundaries. Therapy is offered by video call, phone, live chat or text-based messaging, so people can choose what fits their day.
To begin, clients complete a short matching questionnaire and then arrange sessions according to the scheduling options available.
Details from the counsellor's public professional profile · registration number listed
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| Body | Registration number | Expires |
|---|---|---|
| BACP | 394272 | July 2026 |
Registration details are as listed on the counsellor's public profile. You can check any number with the registering body.
Sessions and payment
Sessions are held online through our partner platform, by video, phone or messaging depending on the counsellor.
Cost Costs are shown on the partner platform before you commit. If cost is a concern, ask about reduced-fee options.
Focus areas and approaches
Everything Shirley lists on their public professional profile, in their own terms.
- Stress, Anxiety
- Relationship issues
- Family conflicts
- Trauma and abuse
- Coping with life changes
- Addictions
- LGBT
- Grief
- Intimacy-related issues
- Eating disorders
- Sleeping disorders
- Parenting issues
- Anger management
- Self esteem
- Career difficulties
- Bipolar disorder
- Depression
- Coaching
- Compassion fatigue
- ADHD
- Abandonment
- Aging and geriatric issues
- Antisocial personality
- Attachment issues
- Avoidant personality
- Blended family issues
- Body image
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Control issues
- Coping with natural or human-caused disaster
- Dependent personality
- Dissociation
- Domestic violence
- Eating and food-related issues
- Emptiness
- Family problems
- Fertility issues
- Forgiveness
- Guilt and shame
- Immigration issues
- Impulsivity
- Infidelity
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- Life purpose
- Midlife crisis
- Money and financial issues
- Multicultural concerns
- Narcissism
- Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Personality disorders
- Phobias
- Postpartum depression
- Post-traumatic stress
- Pregnancy and childbirth
- Prejudice and discrimination
- Self-harm
- Self-love
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Ways of working Shirley names
- Client-Centred Therapy
- Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)
- Mindfulness Therapy
- Psychodynamic Therapy
- Solution-Focused Therapy
- Trauma-Focused Therapy
Naming an approach is not evidence of training in it. This directory copies what each counsellor lists and does not check training records.
Practical therapeutic approaches delivered online
Shirley commonly uses client-centred work and cognitive behavioural ideas to guide online sessions. Client-centred therapy means conversations focus on the person s concerns and pace, with the counsellor listening closely and reflecting what matters most. Cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT) helps people notice unhelpful thinking and try small, practical changes to mood and behaviour. Mindfulness techniques are also used to build awareness of present-moment experience and reduce stress in everyday life.Choosing the right approach is a collaborative process. Shirley will discuss goals and preferences in early sessions and suggest ways of working that fit the person s needs. Therapy can shift over time if different methods seem more helpful as issues evolve.
Online formats include video calls, phone sessions, live chat and text-based messaging. Video calls are useful for a near face-to-face feel and longer therapy sessions. Phone work can be simpler when bandwidth is limited or when someone prefers not to be on camera. Live chat and text allow shorter check-ins or ongoing written support between longer sessions. These options aim to make counselling more flexible and easier to fit into busy lives.
Frequently asked
What kinds of problems does Shirley address?
She works with a wide range of concerns including stress, anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, relationship and family issues, grief, addiction, eating and sleeping problems, ADHD and self-esteem difficulties.
How would you describe her therapeutic style?
The style is collaborative and paced to the person. Sessions blend client-centred listening with practical tools from cognitive behavioural and mindfulness approaches when helpful.
What is her background and experience?
She has 11 years of counselling experience and prior work in further and higher education that informs her understanding of anxiety, burnout and life transitions.
What credentials and location are listed?
Shirley is listed with BACP and practises from the United Kingdom.
Which languages and international options are available?
Sessions are offered in English and she accepts international clients.
What session formats does she provide?
Therapy is available by video calls, phone sessions, live chat or text-based messaging to suit different needs and routines.
How does payment and cost work?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.
How do I start working with her?
Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to the available times.