Nadir Mothojakan, BACP
Nadir Mothojakan offers calm, steady support for people facing big life shifts.
About Nadir
Nadir Mothojakan offers calm, steady support for people facing big life shifts. He focuses on helping individuals cope with grief, loss, job changes, relationship breakdowns and the stress that follows. His approach is simple: listen, help you name what matters, and work out steps you can use day to day.
He draws on 33 years of clinical experience and lists BACP as his professional credential. That background means he has seen many kinds of life stress and long-term difficulties, from anxiety and depression to trauma and the effects of chronic illness.
Background and approach
He works with practical problems such as sleep and eating difficulties and challenges linked to parenting and relationships. In sessions he helps people re-establish boundaries and speak about feelings they may have avoided. He uses active listening and collaborative planning so clients can set clear goals and take manageable steps.
The focus is on restoring a sense of control and building skills that fit everyday life. He also supports people dealing with compassion fatigue, addictions, bipolar disorder, ADHD and issues around identity, including LGBT concerns. Additional interests include adoption and foster care, attachment and ageing-related worries.
Nadir offers a range of ways to work online, including video calls, phone, chat and messaging. If someone wants to explore a particular problem or set a goal, he helps them decide which approach and pace suit them best.
Details from the counsellor's public professional profile · registration number listed
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| Body | Registration number | Expires |
|---|---|---|
| BACP | 381501 | October 2026 |
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Sessions and payment
Sessions are held online through our partner platform, by video, phone or messaging depending on the counsellor.
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Focus areas and approaches
Everything Nadir lists on their public professional profile, in their own terms.
- Family conflicts
- Grief
- Career difficulties
- Coping with life changes
- Compassion fatigue
- Stress, Anxiety
- Addictions
- LGBT
- Relationship issues
- Trauma and abuse
- Eating disorders
- Sleeping disorders
- Parenting issues
- Anger management
- Self esteem
- Bipolar disorder
- Depression
- Coaching
- ADHD
- Abandonment
- Adoption and foster care
- Aging and geriatric issues
- Antisocial personality
- Attachment issues
- Autism and Asperger Syndrome
- Avoidant personality
- Blended family issues
- Cancer
- Chronic pain, illness, and disability
- Codependency
- Control issues
- Coping with natural or human-caused disaster
- Dependent personality
- Disruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)
- Dissociation
- Divorce and separation
- Domestic violence
- Drug and alcohol addiction
- Emptiness
- Family of origin issues
- Family problems
- Fatherhood issues
- Forgiveness
- Guilt and shame
- Hospice and end-of-life counselling
- Immigration issues
- Impulsivity
- Isolation / loneliness
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Midlife crisis
- Multicultural concerns
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Post-traumatic stress
- Prejudice and discrimination
- Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Somatization
- Workplace issues
Ways of working Nadir names
- Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
- Attachment-Based Therapy
- Client-Centred Therapy
- Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)
- Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT)
- Existential Therapy
- Mindfulness Therapy
- Motivational Interviewing
- Narrative Therapy
- Psychodynamic Therapy
- Solution-Focused Therapy
- Trauma-Focused Therapy
Naming an approach is not evidence of training in it. This directory copies what each counsellor lists and does not check training records.
How therapeutic approaches work online
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, or ACT, helps people notice painful thoughts and feelings without being driven by them. It focuses on what matters to you and small actions that move you towards those values, which can help with grief, anxiety and life changes.Attachment-Based Therapy looks at patterns that began in early relationships and how they affect current bonds. Working on those patterns can help with relationship difficulties, abandonment worries and trust issues.
Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will talk with you about your needs, goals and preferences and suggest which methods might help most. This is a collaborative process where plans are adjusted as you learn what works.
Online sessions offer practical flexibility. Video calls let you read facial cues and hold longer conversations, phone sessions can fit into a short break or need less bandwidth, and live chat or text messaging can be used for quick check-ins or when typing feels easier. These options make it simpler to keep continuity of care and try different formats as situations change.
Frequently asked
What kinds of problems does Nadir help with?
He supports people with grief, loss and major life changes, plus anxiety, depression, stress and relationship concerns. He also works with issues such as sleep and eating difficulties, addiction and compassion fatigue.
How would you describe his therapeutic style?
His style is warm and non-judgemental, focusing on active listening and collaborative planning. He helps people name their feelings, set goals and take practical steps forward.
What experience does he bring to sessions?
He has 33 years of professional experience working with a wide range of life stresses and mental health concerns. That background informs a practical, steady approach to therapy.
What professional credential does he hold and where is he based?
He lists BACP as his professional credential and practises from the United Kingdom.
Which languages are supported for sessions?
Sessions are offered in English and he accepts international clients.
What session formats are available online?
Sessions can be held by video call, phone, live chat or text-based messaging to suit different needs and schedules.
How does payment and cost work?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.
How do I begin working with him?
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