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Sueli Montilha, BACP, NCPS

Sueli Montilha brings an evidence-based counselling approach to sensitive personal matters.

About Sueli

Sueli Montilha brings an evidence-based counselling approach to sensitive personal matters. She combines practical techniques with a straightforward, compassionate manner. Sueli aims to create a calm space where people can talk about stress, anxiety, relationship concerns and sexual wellbeing.

She is based in the United Kingdom and holds BACP and NCPS credentials. Sueli trained with an Advanced Professional Diploma in Psychotherapeutic Counselling and holds a CPCAB Certificate in Counselling Children, as well as a Postgraduate Certificate in Low Intensity Psychological Interventions.

Background and approach

She also completed an MSc in Contemporary Psychosexual Therapy with distinction. Those qualifications inform her practical, step-by-step work with clients. Her background includes roles in the charity sector and the NHS.

This has given her experience with complex trauma, sexual trauma, anxiety, depression and communication problems. She also works with sexual functioning concerns such as erectile or ejaculatory difficulties, arousal and desire issues, painful intercourse and orgasm problems. Sueli uses a bio-psychosocial framework that looks at body, mind and environment together.

She is aware of Gender, Sex and Relationship Diversity and brings a multicultural perspective from having lived in several countries. That helps her support people from varied backgrounds and with different relationship styles. Sessions aim to help people understand patterns, build coping skills and find clearer ways to communicate.

The therapist provides practical strategies alongside space to process grief, anger, shame or difficult life changes. Work is collaborative and paced to the person’s needs.

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Registration

Body	Registration number	Expires
BACP	377748	October 2026
NCPS	NCS15-02067	July 2026

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Sessions and payment

Sessions are held online through our partner platform, by video, phone or messaging depending on the counsellor.

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Focus areas and approaches

Everything Sueli lists on their public professional profile, in their own terms.

Stress, Anxiety
Relationship issues
Trauma and abuse
Intimacy-related issues
Coping with life changes
LGBT
Family conflicts
Grief
Parenting issues
Anger management
Self esteem
Career difficulties
Depression
Compassion fatigue
Adoption and foster care
Attachment issues
BDSM, kink, and alternative sex culture
Control issues
Coping with natural or human-caused disaster
Dissociation
Divorce and separation
Domestic violence
Family of origin issues
Family problems
Forgiveness
Guilt and shame
Immigration issues
Infidelity
Isolation / loneliness
Jealousy
Men's issues
Midlife crisis
Multicultural concerns
Panic disorder and panic attacks
Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships
Postpartum depression
Post-traumatic stress
Prejudice and discrimination
Self-harm
Self-love
Sexual assault and abuse
Sexual dysfunction
Sexuality
Social anxiety and phobia
Women's issues
Workplace issues
Young adult issues

How therapy approaches translate to online care

Evidence-based psychosexual therapy helps people address sexual concerns through education, gradual exercises and clearer communication about desire and function. It can reduce shame and improve intimacy by teaching practical steps for sexual wellbeing and problem-solving.

A bio-psychosocial approach looks at how bodily symptoms, personal thoughts and life circumstances interact. This helps when issues are complex, such as trauma-linked sexual difficulties, chronic anxiety or the emotional effects of relationship conflict.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will explore your goals and preferences and recommend methods that fit your needs. Decisions about techniques and pacing are made together, so you can try things and adjust what helps most.

Online sessions are offered by video calls, phone, live chat or text-based messaging to fit different routines. Video helps when visual cues matter, phone sessions need less bandwidth and can be easier for brief check-ins, while messaging and live chat allow written reflection or flexible timing. These options make it simpler to work around childcare, work hours or travel and let people access therapy from different parts of the UK.

Frequently asked

What concerns does this counsellor address?

Sueli works with stress, anxiety, depression, relationship and intimacy issues as well as grief and parenting strain. She also focuses on trauma, sexual wellbeing and complications with sexual functioning.

What is the therapist's approach in sessions?

Her work is practical and evidence informed, using a bio-psychosocial framework to link body, mind and context. Sessions combine discussion, coping skills and steps to improve communication and sexual health.

How much clinical experience does she have?

Sueli has six years of professional experience, including roles in the charity sector and the NHS that involved supporting people with complex needs.

What credentials and region are listed for this counsellor?

She holds BACP and NCPS credentials and practises from the United Kingdom.

Which languages are available for therapy?

Sessions are offered in English.

What session formats are offered?

Therapy is available by video calls, phone sessions, live chat or text-based messaging.

How are fees and payment handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability and sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin working with this counsellor?

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